After talking to other girls about their travails in relationships, I
realized that I have come out fairly unscathed.
Compared to a 6 year relationship ending in betrayal or a boyfriend
turned stalker... I have been lucky.
I'm also lucky to have gotten out of this horrible trap before i was
damaged or weakened any further. Despite the unhappiness that results
from a breakup, I should also be thankful that I am free from the
strain and stress. I'm regaining control of my own life -- that is a
gift in itself and the best way to take most advantage of it is to
improve myself.
Forget where he is and where he is (not) going in life and instead
think about myself and all the goals I have set out for myself to
accomplish. Think about having fun, being healthy, and reaching far.
Think about your level vs his level... Definitely NOT on par. If
someone else has gone through so much more drama than I have... And
have healed and learned from it... Then I can sure as hell move on
from my mistakes. Bigger things are in store for me.. I know it.